We are continuing our educational series Today we are talking about the Girl Power!

You know what GFE is; you know what an escort means… but what is Femdom?

Sensual Femdom is domination with a sensual edge, where one of the partners is being possibly tied and definitely teased. It is about temporarily giving up the control one may have to exercise in other areas of day-to-day activities. Femdom, as I see it, is absolutely not about pain and humiliation. It is about worship and exploration of your sexuality in safe and controlled environment. According to all knowing Wikipedia, “Female dominance (or Femdom) refers to the BDSM relationships or BDSM scenes where the dominant partner is female. A dominant woman may often be called a domme… domina, or dominatrix. A female dominant in a master/slave relationship is often called the mistress.”

Essentially a Femdom practitioner is an erotic artist, a hypnotist, a story teller, an enchantress and a seductress among many other things. Any Mistress should be able to alter her style of domination in order to suit each and every unique need of her Submissive (unless, of course she has a specialty).

Majority of escorts are rarely into playing submissive role during role play. It is of course first and foremost dictated by safety concerns. Lady would not want to be in physically vulnerable position when she is entertaining someone she is not well familiar with especially without safety button and security.

Another reason is that sex work, at least at top level, tends to draw intelligent women with domineering personalities. It is only natural for them to play the Dom and not Sub part.

Usually, you would not find a Dominatrix that provides escort services, but you can find an escort that provides Sensual Domination. Majority of escorts providing FemDom sessions prefer not to be seen as Jacks of All Trades and advertise in very subtle ways. “I engage in full range of fetish play” would be a good signal that your chosen lady may indeed cater to your fetishes.

So if you are interested in combining both satisfaction of conventional encounter with a courtesan and eroticism of sensual domination, I would recommend choosing an escort you desire to schedule with and see if she also hints at providing BDSM services. Not the other way around.

The best part of this world and modern technology, is that regardless of what you seek, you are bound to find someone who caters to your particular desire. Be is smoking fetish sessions, erotic spanking, body worship, tease and denial, or erotic role play, you are bound to find that special Lady who will fulfill your fantasies and desires.

That concludes our sexy lesson of the day. As always feel free to ask!

Sensual Lina,
The Modern Courtesan, Girlfriend Extraordinaire and NYC’s Best Kept Secret