This is Part Two of “Meeting a Courtesan for First Time”. Whether you are looking for Girlfriend Experience (GFE) in New York, Chicago, Boston, San Francisco, Las Vegas or any other town, be it incall, outcall, upscale dinner date, overnight appointment, travel companionship or just afternoon erotic escape, there are certain things you should know. What to expect from encounter if you are a total newbie?

Meeting someone for first time can be nerve racking, especially meeting an escort. I always take it as a compliment when someone contacts me saying that this is something that they have been interested in but never had the nerve to follow through.

I treat it as huge responsibility. After all, I am shaping some one’s new experience. This is why while I do offer one hour intro, I always advise to book minimum of two to four hours. Best way would be to schedule cocktails or dinner date to help with the jitters.

Here are some tips on what to expect and what to do to make your encounter memorable in a good way!

Introduction.

Make your first contact memorable. Be concise, honest, friendly and open. If you just want info (shopping?) be honest. If you want to schedule an appointment, suggest best time for you (don’t say “How about some time next week?”). Don’t be graphic or specific-EVER. A lot of well established ladies have Contact Forms on their websites. I prefer to offer both e-mail and form options for contact. But expect that all information required to fill out the form will be asked for eventually. Potential patrons who call asking if I am available now (whatever time that now is) go on infamous Do Not See list.

Research. A lot of work goes into websites. Usually, everything you need to know about your date is addressed on the website. Pictures, Schedule, Rates, even FAQs.

Screening and References.

Do expect to be screened prior to the date. I personally would not refer my patrons to ladies who do not screen nor would I accept their references. This is why last moment dates only work with high volume girls from craigs list. Established courtesans offering exceptional service will need at least several hours to screen you.

References. This usually is a biggest stumbling block with Newbies. You can’t book time with reputed courtesan without providing references, and you can’t have references without previously seeing someone. This requirement varies from lady to lady. Some won’t accept new clients without references, others require minimum of 3 or 2. There are also “newbie friendly” providers who will work with you. My rule is if I can safely establish your identity and occupation I may accept you as a client.
Of course, there are websites like Datecheck and P411, but if you have profile there you are definitely not a Newbie.

You made the appointment, what now?

Now that you’ve made a good first impression, carry it through to the appointment. Show up! Be on time! Be freshly showered and presentable. Not too much “cheap” cologne, please. Be careful of doing anything that would scare her or cause her to be suspicious. Make a great in-person first impression! Be confident and relaxed. Act like you’ve done this before. Greet her cordially. Give her a handshake (or, even better, a short non-sexual hug!) and smile and look her in the eye. Be nice–it costs no more and it will pay off in better dividends when it counts.

Place fee in unmarked white envelope upon your arrival (incall) or prior to hers (outcall). Preferred location for said envelope is usually in the bathroom. This helps to avoid awkward moments for both of you. Do expect her to turn and leave if you use any specific words implying illegal activities.

And finally, do remember to lock the doors. Believe me, while look on maid’s face when she walks in to clean the room while you are entertaining is priceless, you do not want to be in that situation.

See how simple it is? Now go off and have some fun!

Lina, the Modern Courtesan and Your Secret Part Time Girlfriend.