So you are smart, accomplished, discerning Gentleman who is either unhappily married or single but work 90 hours a week. Yet you love spending time with sensual women, looking for perfect dinner date, adventurous travel companion, intimate GFE or simply a stolen moment of pleasure. Do you go the mistress route or arrange a meeting with escort dinner companion ? Post on website for sugar babies or seek out ultimate Girlfriend Experience with someone who dates professionally? There was a lot of mistress talk lately. So lets explore.

What are Pros and Cons?

Exclusivity. Well, unless you are interested a long-term exclusive arrangement with an escort, you would have to be OK with the fact that you are not her only patron. On another hand, how do you really know that your mistress is seeing only you? Escorts, even though they see multiple gentlemen, tend to be more educated (STD-wise) than a girl next door.

Availability. I can see how having a mistress who is always available for you can be preferable to having to schedule in advance with professional escort. On another hand, having affair with a woman who has no life of her own can result at some very uncomfortable phone calls at most inopportune times. Escorts generally don’t call and complain “you never call me anymore”.

Fallout. I was not born a professional courtesan. In my life I had a chance to experience every spectrum of relationships. Being a Wife, a Girlfriend, a Mistress and Escort (all at different times) allowed me to gain certain understanding of what works in which relationships. When I was married I would have been a lot more tolerant of my spouse seeing a professional than of having an affair. Also, a professional less likely to cause trouble in your personal and professional life.

Experience. Yes, Intimacy and sensuality experienced in love affair are unsurpassed by anything a GFE provider may offer in one hour session. But that comes with a price tag or responsibility and possible complications (read above). And those Gentleman who are interested intimacy and sensuality generally are better off establishing on-going relationship with a Courtesan for said reasons.

The Hunt. Men like to hunt, and it would seem that there is no need to hunt an escort. Well, in reality, it is relatively easy to book an Escort once. Becoming her regular, trusted and favorite patron may take a bit of an effort. If anything, a Courtesan is harder to impress with bling and glamour than average civilian.

Costs. Mistress can be less expensive option in short term. After all, dinner and a movie is fraction of Courtesan’s dinner date fee. But pretty soon those dinners add up and before you know it you are spending Saturday afternoons at Bed Bath and Beyond shopping for curtains for your new home. Because old one has changed locks. Courtesan? You know all the costs upfront, gifts are welcome but not encouraged, and last thing she wants is to see you on her doorstep after your were kicked out of the house.

Did I miss anything? Feel free to add your two cents

Lina, Modern Courtesan and Secret Part Time Girlfriend in New York